The things you will understand when you slow down

 Everyone is kind to someone when they meet for the first time, the question is how long their kindness lasts. don't be fooled just because someone is nice to you at first.

Knowledge wants to talk while wisdom wants to listen.

Many conflicts in our lives can be resolved if we put ourselves in the other person's shoes. Try to look at things from their point of view. If you consider only your side, you are no different from a child.

If you think you are either superior or inferior to someone, an invisible wall goes up between you. Treat him like an old friend you haven't seen in a while. When you let your guard down, so will he.

Do you know why that conversation is so boring? Because we are trapped into politeness, unable to speak from the heart. Any conversation can become interesting and lively as soon as we start speaking with the real honesty.

Do memories cause you pain? Practice being in the present moment. Turn your attention to the here and now. Notice that your thoughts subside when you focus on the present. as your thoughts quiet so, too, the memories. 

People who easily ignore others do so because they are afraid of being ignored.

Do not try to control those around you. When you cannot control even your own mind, What makes you think you can control others?

Problems in teenage life

Hello my dear juniors. Though this is my  first article for the most important age group of our universe i.e. our young teens.You guys are not only teens,although you are going to be our future humans,our culture of tomorrow. So being happy and growing in life is utmost important for you all. My keen to write for you,to help you in your thoughts making process is no new, it emerged years back when i started teaching school students in Delhi as a private tutor. Only then i came to know how troubles they face each and every day in their academics and personal life despite enjoying their age life.

Problems of teenage students

Hey you all,relax. Today i would certainly show you some of the key isuues to be solved in a very tricky way you never heard of. But before that let me through some light on your life.

Let me introduce you a story of a boy. the story begins with.......

Puneet(name changed) was my one of the best ever student. That day was my first demo class with him but before with him, it was her mom....oh my god...the same concerns every mom has before fixing new tutor for their child..some of them are like

• Aarti, he is very naughty and you need to beat him to control.
• Aarti, he is very poor in maths and science beta,please teach him sincerely
• You don't know his teachers are obsessed with his mischivious behave, i get insulted everytime i attend PTM.
• Teach him in any method you want,he is really a bad boy of society.

I mean i was so shocked, i was there to teach him,to guide him in his ways. And what his mother was doing,nothing just insulting him in-front of a stranger who is going to teach him in a so called effective way.Is that really possible to enhance his education level despite the way his mom started the introduction?

Let me tell you education is not to get good grades and earn money only,In our country like India education means enhancing the thought-process of one's mind,standardizing the way of living,education helps to distinguish between an animal and a humans. But my question is to these parents,are you really creating a blissful souls in your child by talking only nonsense negatives to everybody they meet with for their child.

Apart from intros she was impressed with my teaching and i began to teach him everyday and he started take interest too,actually he was enjoying my sessions more than ever before. But once just before exams,he along with his parents went for an holiday just attracted out of some offers offered by tourist sellers. And their some flood like natural calamity occured due to which they stuck off for more than required days and in this way he had to left 2 exams due to unavailable in the city. They came back and the Puneet was so scared of the incident and couldn't able to focus on anything,but unluckily just next day of their arrival was the exam of social science. I taught him for more than 4 hrs but the result came out after a long month and it was failed.The worse thing i noticed was his mom were constantly blaming his unstudied ways for results is so negative, she could not even see how she was attempting delays in his study times to holidays and then such problems.

I am hoping this is no new to any teenage but remember one thing you are the the best persons.

you are the superheroes of our own life.

We are humans,and we commit mistake,its our nature,but just few mistakes are not to be taken bases to judge your life your carrer objectives.Its your life, You can and you will do the best things no one can ever thought of.Remember one thing you are the only directors of your bollywood life,SOme make awesome films in your life and enjoy every bit of it,no matter which one hit the box office of society or which gets flopped.

My request with parents try to understand your child rather always scolding them. I know you have rights on them. But let them make decisions,they are going to lead their life themselves, and for that they need to take charge of their own life atleast. They are too individuals as you were once. They need love and empathy to grow, they need fertile lands to emerge as a fruitful humans......they need you, dont command but support them....dont pressurize but advice them.

Tricks to outperform in your works..

 One of the most important decisions you can make and focus your time and energy is living in the present moment. What does this mean?

Living in the moment means that you must give up the past. It cannot be changed. Living in the moment means that you stop worrying about the future—as it is only a dream or part of your imagination. You often cannot control the future. Nor can you predict it, despite all the time and energy you give it. Furthermore, approximately 85% of what you worry about never becomes reality. So, let tomorrow take care of itself—and it will.

Just laugh as much as you can and remove all stress...

It is said that laughter is the best medicine, well it may not be medicine but it is on of the best things for you. In fact aside from improving our moods, reduces stress, boosts your immune system because of the facial mussels being connected it makes a response between your thymus gland that is connected with your immune system, and reduce pain. It is said that laughing can even extend your life span.

Moving towards my conclusion,I your mentor will always help you in dealing with your problems. Hope you enjoyed reading it...live you life and make your parents proud.Do comment for feedbacks and further queries.

love you all...peaceful you peaceful life...